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WENDY

JARVIE

Intimacy Coach & Ceremonialist

Creating spaces for individuals, couples, and communities where intimacy becomes a way of living, and connection becomes a daily practice.

Private sessions • Retreats • Ceremonies • Events


Hello, Dear One.

I'm so glad you're here.

Over the past six years, I've devoted my life to the study and practice of intimacy, embodiment, and human connection. Along the way, I've come to a simple yet profound realization: beneath nearly everything we seek is a longing to love deeply and be deeply loved.

To me, the quality of our lives is shaped by the quality of our relationships—with ourselves, our partners, our communities, and the living world around us.

My work fuses archetypal psychology, Integrative Health, somatic coaching, Taoist Tantric arts, trauma-informed practices, energy work, and ancient wisdom traditions to support lasting transformation from the inside out.

Whether we're meeting in a private coaching session, gathering in ceremony, or sharing space on retreat, my intention is always the same: to create environments where you can relax into belonging, remember who you are, and cultivate a more authentic relationship with yourself and those you love.

Everything I teach is rooted in lived experience. I share only the practices that have transformed my own life, strengthened my marriage, grounded me in motherhood, and deepened my relationships and sense of community. I don't believe healing comes from becoming someone new; it comes from returning to what has always been true beneath the protective layers of conditioning.

With compassionate support, intentional practice, and the willingness to meet ourselves honestly, I believe we can move beyond unconscious patterns and into relationships rooted in presence, devotion, and fulfillment.

It is an honor to walk alongside those who feel called toward a more intimate, embodied, and wholehearted way of living.

Much Love,

Empress Wen

let’s work together!

Online & In-Person Ceremonies

Individual Intimacy Mentorship

These sessions deepen self-awareness & self-relationship, cultivate erotic intelligence & embodiment, & help you boldly step into empowered intimacy & expansion!

8 sessions, 75 - 90 minutes each, all online

Tantric Couples Sessions

Using conscious relating communication & conflict resolution, tantra & taoism, & mindfulness-based relationship techniques, this program guides couples into enlivened connection, sacred sexuality, co-creation & healing together.

5 - 11 sessions, 2 hours each, online & in-person

In-Person Endogenous Medicine Ceremonies

Located in the Bay Area, CA. These ceremonies are rooted in Shamanic Taoist & Tantric methods that include guided embodiment & energywork. These are incredibly potent ceremonies that can catalyze growth & evoke radical mindset shifts.

2.5 hours each, in my home or yours, for individuals & couples

PUSSIFIED Sisterhood

The 2026 Retreats

Divine Feminine embodiment & empowerment retreats that savor sisterhood, purge our stories & limiting beliefs, reignite pleasure in our bodies, & play with life!

4 - 6 days, all over the world, only 8 - 12 women per retreat

MORE INFO TO COME

Online Courses

ELIXIR

a DIY tantric date night experience for couples


✓ Intro to Tantric Basics
✓ Learn how to create a ritual space
✓ 3hrs of energywork & sacred sexuality guidance
✓ Lifetime access

Let’s Connect!